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Author: Dr. Shelley Carson is a psychologist at the National Center for Telehealth & Technology (T2).
Depression is a growing public health problem; according to the World Health Organization, it is currently the second-most pervasive illness worldwide (only heart disease afflicts more people), and by 2020, depression may be the most pervasive health problem on the planet. Depression can be deadly; depressed individuals are at four times greater risk for a heart attack than are those who do not suffer from depression. Depression also poses a high risk for suicide and self-injury; approximately 80% of individuals who commit suicide do so during a depressive episode.
Service members and their families are certainly not immune to the growing health risk of depression. Getting help early is the best way to avoid the potential health hazards. The classic warning signs of depression include:
- Feeling sad or blue for an extended period of time (more than two weeks)
- Losing interest in things that used to give you pleasure
- Withdrawing from friends and loved ones
- Having trouble sleeping – either you have insomnia or you’re sleeping a lot more than normal
- Having trouble eating – either you’ve lost your appetite and are losing weight without trying or you are craving food (usually carbohydrates) and are gaining weight
- Having trouble concentrating and making decisions
- Feeling extremely guilty or worthless
- Feeling that there’s no hope or no use to carry on
- Thinking of death or suicide
Keep in mind that depressed people don’t always look “depressed.” In fact, depression has many faces. Let’s look at a few ways depression can masquerade itself.
In children, depression can be expressed as behavior problems. If you have a normally well-behaved child who suddenly starts acting up and causing problems at home or school, you should consider the possibility of depression. Children can also express depression as physical complaints, such as unexplained stomach aches, headaches, or throat problems. This is called “somatization” (expressing emotional distress as physical pain). So watch for these two things in children: sudden behavior problems or unexplained physical complaints.
Teenagers may also express depression through behavior problems. These can include promiscuous sexual behavior, drug or alcohol abuse, skipping school (truancy) or acts of delinquency (such as vandalism). If your well-adjusted teenager suddenly goes “Goth” or starts skipping school, consider the possibility of depression.
Depressed adults (especially men) may seem uncharacteristically irritable and angry. They may become irritated over small things, have a shorter fuse than normal, or act unusually aggressive. Alternately, men may become very stoic, refusing to show any emotion at all when depressed. I call this the “Mr. Spock” face of depression after Star Trek’s stone-faced Vulcan character who claimed to have no feelings. If you notice unusual anger, irritability or emotional numbness in yourself or others, consider the possibility of depression.
Finally, depression in the elderly may mimic signs of dementia. Seniors may seem overly forgetful, confused, or disoriented when depressed. While true dementia needs to be ruled out - many of these signs of mental deterioration may actually improve when seniors are treated for depression.
Knowing the classic signs of depression and additional disguises that depression often wears will enable you to seek help from a healthcare provider earlier for yourself or your loved ones. Remember, depression can change or distort the way a person views their life and is a medical illness, not a sign of weakness, and is treatable.
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